I have two kids with my ex-husband. Both kids and I are in therapy due to past issues related to my ex-husband/kids father. He’s been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, and he has domestic violence on his record, he’s pulled a gun on my current husband and I. He came to my home and threatened to shoot us because I had moved on after we divorced. He stalks our home, and makes threatens very harmful things towards me. He’s dropped our son on his head at 9 months old in the middle of a restaurant, he’s locked him in a dog cage, he’s left him with numerous people, he’s slapped/hit/kicked our son, and verbally and physically assaulted him because he has ADHD. Both my children have begged me not to let him take them away. He’s trying to get full custody.